I’ve been meaning to write about this for a while. This spring, I got reacquainted with a gentleman that I knew from WAY back in the day. Let’s call him…Pierre Pierre
The signs didn’t hit me all at once. They were very gradual. He always asked me for advice – very needy. But that wasn’t a problem for me. The issue was that it was situations about what he should do in particular situations. Second sign – I called him on more than one occasion and he was actually out on a date! (Yes, I know….I can’t believe it either!) But that didn’t matter to me either (yep…getting REAL stupid here, I know!) because he and I were NOT in a committed relationship with each other…so it wasn’t exactly like he was cheating on me.
The last straw was his lack of wanting to be in a relationship. I asked him a couple of times about where did he see us going, and he couldn’t give me a straight answer. I heard everything from he needed to work on himself…to he needed to resolve some crazy issues with his estranged father…in short, he sounded like a politician. That’s when I knew that it was time for me to ride out. (Thanks, Steve Harvey!) Ladies…get that book! Also, check out The Conversation by Hill Harper...
P.S. On a side note, I told my best friend Felise (not her real name) that Pierre probably has a girlfriend by now…and wouldn’t you know…He called me and told me so…Best of luck to you Pierre…
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