Time Flies By...
Man...It feels like I was just making my New Years Resolutions...and now it's almost March! Time is just flying by, and although I'm getting a lot done...it seems as if I have a lot more to do...I gues it's time to get it cracking before my time runs out...
P.S. Be back soon with another post...I promise!!!
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Thursday, February 25, 2010

Makes Me Wanna Holler...
Since I'm starting the new career path in the field of Education...I will post some blogs dealing with my experiences...Some are good, some are bad...but they are ALL worthwhile!
Working as an Assistant Teacher is ok, and I only say that because I have my own ideas that I want to do in the classroom and well, I can’t do that right now...cause it's not my class. I’d like to be done with school too…but it takes time, and I’m learning that patience is truly a virtue – which you definitely need dealing with kids. That being said...I can't wait to be a teacher...I think I've found what I can be good at and enjoy it (however the kids have learned the HARD way that Ms. Cooper is CRAZY! LOL!)
There is ONE thing that alarms me, and my friends that are teachers (Thanks Shannon...) warned me about it, but I just had to see it for myself…
I AM ASHAMED OF BLACK STUDENTS. (I know this sounds bad...but I do. I cringe and want to just slap them to sleep when they act a fool...am I getting bourgeoisie? Nah...I don't think so)
Not all of them…but definitely some of them. The school that I work at is very diverse. The population consists of Blacks, Whites, Latinos, Asians, Indians, etc. Now I know that there are goofballs in every race, but it seems like my young Black brothers and sisters didn’t get the memo. Education is important, and you need to take it seriously because there are no free passes out here. Also, waiting it out to become the next LeBron James or Beyonce Knowles just isn’t smart (the odds are astronomically not in your favor). I've got kids who can't tell me who Medgar Evans, Malcolm X and Martin Luther King Jr., is but they know all the lyrics to LOL Smiley Face...damn you BET! (that's a whole different story right there)
Now...I’m not trying to crush anyone’s dreams (I still want to pursue my writing career); what I’m saying is that you have to have a back-up plan in case the first one doesn’t happen. Most of the kids of other races (I know that I’m over-generalizing this) get this, but the Black children don’t. For example, in a class that I assist in, the teacher gave the class one of the easiest assignments ever. It was a Tuesday morning, and the class had to bring in a one inch, 3 ring binder and index tabs by that next Monday for 10 points extra credit in addition to the regular points. It was due on Tuesday for full credit and no extra credit. This assignment was also worth 30% of their final grade. On Monday, only 3 out of the 14 Black kids in the class turned in their assignment. The teacher gave them until Wednesday to turn it in and only one did. Now I looked at the other kids. Out of the other races, two kids didn’t bring their binders and one of them had left it in her locker, and she begged the teacher to go get it. The Black students didn’t care that they didn’t have their assignments. It wasn’t that serious to them. I hear it everyday in the hallways; “Oh well…I don’t care…so what!” I can’t fathom why they just don’t get it! They have so many programs created to HELP them succeed, and they are letting these opportunities slip away. Hell, I wish they had that stuff when I was going to college. My friends and I would’ve gone to Ivy League schools for free! (Yes, they do have these programs!)
I listened to the Michael Baisden a couple of months ago and Bill Cosby was on. He stated that the parents are a major reason kids act like this. The parents have the same attitude, and it’s a damn shame. It’s a damn shame when you think about how people before us sacrificed in order so the children of the future can have awesome opportunities. The Little Rock 9 got threatened and spit-on and were treated like shit just to GO TO SCHOOL. And these kids are out here pissing it away…
I don’t have an overnight solution…but I have one for right now: Parents, step your game up! Emphasize to your children that education is a PRIORITY, and a possible ticket out of a bad situation. We must set good examples. James Baldwin says while children may not listen to you, they never fail to imitate you. Put down their video games and expensive gym shoes and buy them some books. Get them the help that they need. Listen to what your child’s teacher is telling you instead of going up to the school cuss them out…the teacher might just be right…did you ever think about that?
Please get it together before those programs are taken away because people think that we don’t care. To quote one of my favorite singers, Marvin Gaye, “It makes me wanna holler, and throw up my hands.”
Sorry to vent yall...I'll go back into my cave now and finish marinating on some other stuff...LOL! Have a great night!
Working as an Assistant Teacher is ok, and I only say that because I have my own ideas that I want to do in the classroom and well, I can’t do that right now...cause it's not my class. I’d like to be done with school too…but it takes time, and I’m learning that patience is truly a virtue – which you definitely need dealing with kids. That being said...I can't wait to be a teacher...I think I've found what I can be good at and enjoy it (however the kids have learned the HARD way that Ms. Cooper is CRAZY! LOL!)
There is ONE thing that alarms me, and my friends that are teachers (Thanks Shannon...) warned me about it, but I just had to see it for myself…
I AM ASHAMED OF BLACK STUDENTS. (I know this sounds bad...but I do. I cringe and want to just slap them to sleep when they act a fool...am I getting bourgeoisie? Nah...I don't think so)
Not all of them…but definitely some of them. The school that I work at is very diverse. The population consists of Blacks, Whites, Latinos, Asians, Indians, etc. Now I know that there are goofballs in every race, but it seems like my young Black brothers and sisters didn’t get the memo. Education is important, and you need to take it seriously because there are no free passes out here. Also, waiting it out to become the next LeBron James or Beyonce Knowles just isn’t smart (the odds are astronomically not in your favor). I've got kids who can't tell me who Medgar Evans, Malcolm X and Martin Luther King Jr., is but they know all the lyrics to LOL Smiley Face...damn you BET! (that's a whole different story right there)
Now...I’m not trying to crush anyone’s dreams (I still want to pursue my writing career); what I’m saying is that you have to have a back-up plan in case the first one doesn’t happen. Most of the kids of other races (I know that I’m over-generalizing this) get this, but the Black children don’t. For example, in a class that I assist in, the teacher gave the class one of the easiest assignments ever. It was a Tuesday morning, and the class had to bring in a one inch, 3 ring binder and index tabs by that next Monday for 10 points extra credit in addition to the regular points. It was due on Tuesday for full credit and no extra credit. This assignment was also worth 30% of their final grade. On Monday, only 3 out of the 14 Black kids in the class turned in their assignment. The teacher gave them until Wednesday to turn it in and only one did. Now I looked at the other kids. Out of the other races, two kids didn’t bring their binders and one of them had left it in her locker, and she begged the teacher to go get it. The Black students didn’t care that they didn’t have their assignments. It wasn’t that serious to them. I hear it everyday in the hallways; “Oh well…I don’t care…so what!” I can’t fathom why they just don’t get it! They have so many programs created to HELP them succeed, and they are letting these opportunities slip away. Hell, I wish they had that stuff when I was going to college. My friends and I would’ve gone to Ivy League schools for free! (Yes, they do have these programs!)
I don’t have an overnight solution…but I have one for right now: Parents, step your game up! Emphasize to your children that education is a PRIORITY, and a possible ticket out of a bad situation. We must set good examples. James Baldwin says while children may not listen to you, they never fail to imitate you. Put down their video games and expensive gym shoes and buy them some books. Get them the help that they need. Listen to what your child’s teacher is telling you instead of going up to the school cuss them out…the teacher might just be right…did you ever think about that?
Please get it together before those programs are taken away because people think that we don’t care. To quote one of my favorite singers, Marvin Gaye, “It makes me wanna holler, and throw up my hands.”
Sorry to vent yall...I'll go back into my cave now and finish marinating on some other stuff...LOL! Have a great night!
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Monday, January 11, 2010

Why Do Bad Things Happen to Good People?
This is Jane's cat Baxter; he was like her child...He's living with us now...
My mom, who is usually hard as a rock, lost a really good friend on Monday, and we attended her funeral service today. It really hit me because my mom, who NEVER cries, was really broke up about her dear friend. Jane was a really nice lady who worked with my mother at SSC. She had a wicked sense of humor...She was also very giving and always thought about others. When I became ill and was hospitalized, she sent me my favorite things (magazines) just so I could have something to pass the time. I should also mention that she was very sick as well. I just feel like the good people out here always leave early and the ignorant folks live forEVER...
Here's a poem that was Jane's obituary that I'd like to share:
LIFE CLOCK
The clock of life is wound but once
And no man has the power
To tell just when the hands will stop
At late of early hour.
Now is the only time you own;
Live, Love, tell with a will...
Place no faith in "Tomorrow" for
The clock may then be still.
RIP. Jane E. Dillon (March 25, 1963 - December 28, 2009)
My mom, who is usually hard as a rock, lost a really good friend on Monday, and we attended her funeral service today. It really hit me because my mom, who NEVER cries, was really broke up about her dear friend. Jane was a really nice lady who worked with my mother at SSC. She had a wicked sense of humor...She was also very giving and always thought about others. When I became ill and was hospitalized, she sent me my favorite things (magazines) just so I could have something to pass the time. I should also mention that she was very sick as well. I just feel like the good people out here always leave early and the ignorant folks live forEVER...
Here's a poem that was Jane's obituary that I'd like to share:
LIFE CLOCK
The clock of life is wound but once
And no man has the power
To tell just when the hands will stop
At late of early hour.
Now is the only time you own;
Live, Love, tell with a will...
Place no faith in "Tomorrow" for
The clock may then be still.
RIP. Jane E. Dillon (March 25, 1963 - December 28, 2009)
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Thursday, December 31, 2009

I Don’t Wanna Be Your STAN…
I’ve been meaning to write about this for a while. This spring, I got reacquainted with a gentleman that I knew from WAY back in the day. Let’s call him…Pierre (not his real name). Pierre was cute in junior high & high school – now fast-forward about 11 years. Homey put on about a good 30 pounds of muscle, got some facial hair – basically good got better! LOL! He is the IBM (Ideal Black Man) – no kids, good job, educated, good looking, spiritual…the list goes on and on…We visited each other (which was hard because he lives out of state). We went out on a few dates. We talked all the time. So…you might ask, what was the problem? I felt that the brother wanted me to be a STAN. What is a STAN? It basically means that you are a STAND-IN until something better comes along for that person.
The signs didn’t hit me all at once. They were very gradual. He always asked me for advice – very needy. But that wasn’t a problem for me. The issue was that it was situations about what he should do in particular situations. Second sign – I called him on more than one occasion and he was actually out on a date! (Yes, I know….I can’t believe it either!) But that didn’t matter to me either (yep…getting REAL stupid here, I know!) because he and I were NOT in a committed relationship with each other…so it wasn’t exactly like he was cheating on me.
The last straw was his lack of wanting to be in a relationship. I asked him a couple of times about where did he see us going, and he couldn’t give me a straight answer. I heard everything from he needed to work on himself…to he needed to resolve some crazy issues with his estranged father…in short, he sounded like a politician. That’s when I knew that it was time for me to ride out. (Thanks, Steve Harvey!) Ladies…get that book! Also, check out The Conversation by Hill Harper...
P.S. On a side note, I told my best friend Felise (not her real name) that Pierre probably has a girlfriend by now…and wouldn’t you know…He called me and told me so…Best of luck to you Pierre…
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Sunday, November 22, 2009

What's Your Favorite Scary Movie?
As you might know (...and if you don't know, now you know...lol) Halloween is my favorite holiday. And with that comes scary movies! In the spirit of Halloween, I'm listing, in my opinion, the top 15 scariest movies...I can watch all of them, except one (guess which one it is)!
1. The Exorcist
2. Hostel
3. Halloween
4. The Thing
5. Saw
6. Friday the 13th (part 2; in part one, the killer wasn't Jason...who was it?)
7. Texas Chainsaw Massacre
8. The Fly
9. Alien
10. A Nightmare on Elm Street
11. Carrie
12. Seven
13. Dawn of the Dead
14. Jaws
15. The Omen
***Runner-Up: The Hitcher***
Tell me what you think!
1. The Exorcist
2. Hostel
3. Halloween
4. The Thing
5. Saw
6. Friday the 13th (part 2; in part one, the killer wasn't Jason...who was it?)
7. Texas Chainsaw Massacre
8. The Fly
9. Alien
10. A Nightmare on Elm Street
11. Carrie
12. Seven
13. Dawn of the Dead
14. Jaws
15. The Omen
***Runner-Up: The Hitcher***
Tell me what you think!
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Friday, October 30, 2009

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